"We're Moving WHERE?"
For five glorious years this gal enjoyed the Manhattan lifestyle on the Upper East Side. This blog is about what happens when a former sorority girl and self-proclaimed "Manhattanite for Life" gets married (yay!) sets off into the foreign land of Brooklyn.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Travel Bug

Before I met my now husband, I hadn't traveled very much. In fact, the thought of traveling never really crossed my mind. Hubby is a huge traveler and has been all over the world. He really changed something for me, and I have the travel itch big time. Together we have been to Paris, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Las Vegas, and Hawaii. Without hubby I have been to London and Israel. This list is looking smaller and smaller to me, as I feel the need to get away ASAP. Hubby definitely taught me a new way to travel. There is more to travel than lying in the sun on a cruise ship. And hubby never travels in groups or uses a travel agent. Part of the fun is figuring it all out for yourself and being with the native people. For example, when we were in Costa Rica and the Dominican we were NOT at all inclusive resorts. We were exploring the countries, going out with the locals. I can't wait to book our next trip- hopefully soon!

Here are some of the places I really want to visit:

1. Italy
2. Greece
3. Egypt
4. Austria
5. Croatia
6. North Korea (not a joke- hubby and I are fascinated and want to know what's going on there)
7. China
8. Iceland
9. Turkey
10. Czech Republic
11. Africa (not just South Africa- I want to go on safari in another country as well)
12. Mauritius (yes, I know this is part of Africa, but I want to go here in particular)
13. Morocco
14. Russia
15. Spain
16. Portugal
17. Scotland
18. Ireland
19. Antarctica (you can cruise there, sounds awesome)
20. Alaska
21. California (never been!)
22. Canada (never been!)
23. Mexico (never been- can you believe that?)
24. Australia
25. Netherlands
26. Poland
27. Switzerland

I'm sure I'm missing some. Anyone out there got any good travel tips? I want to see the world!


Monday, March 22, 2010

Puppy Education 101


We did it! Hubby and I brought home our adorable puppy on Friday morning. He is a very sweet and social boy. He never really seemed scared, and didn't give us a hard time overnight his first night. He took to Hubby and me immediately, and never wants to leave our sides. Literally.

I work as an early childhood special education teacher. Much of what I do seems to apply to puppy education as well. I'm NOT saying my children are like dogs, don't get me wrong! I'm just saying that the manner in which I teach my three and four year-olds is similar to how I go about teaching my puppy. Here are some examples:

1. Replacement Activities- When my children do something wrong, I don't just tell them no, I give them something to do instead of the wrong or harmful activity. For example, if a child grabs a toy from a peer, I give them the correct tools to use to obtain that toy (i.e. asking for the toy with words). I am constantly finding replacement activities for my pup. When he starts to bite on something of mine, I tell him no and give him his bone or chew toy instead.

2. Distractibility- Often my students are easily distracted and cannot maintain attention for long periods of time. This has been the case with puppy, especially when it comes to eating. He will take some food in his mouth and carry it over to a rug near our kitchen. He likes to chew it over there, and then walk back towards his bowl. But on his way to the bowl, he continues to get very distracted. I think he forgets what he was supposed to be doing. I deal with this constantly with my kids! Must draw their attention back to the task at hand.

3. Positive Reinforcement- This one is a no brainer. All day long I reward my children for doing positive things. Puppy is no different. I think my dog responds best to hugs and kisses. He didn't want the treats we offered him! But he loves to be scooped up and loved.

4. Potty Training- Potty-training is (unfortunately) often part of my j
ob description. I put my students on a schedule where I take them to the potty every so often to try to catch successes. Same with pup! Hubby and I have been taking him almost every hour to prevent accidents. He is doing a great job!

I'm sure there are more similarities, but that's all for now. I leave you with a pic of the cutest puppy EVER. And no, he's not a stuffed animal.



Tuesday, March 16, 2010

A Running Tour of Williamsburg

Finally, some nice weather here in NYC! Tonight I went out for a run in my new neighborhood. It's only the second time I've run outside since we moved in the fall. I thought I'd share some of my observations while running through the new 'hood.

Here is a little map of my area for your convenience:
I started off running north on Wythe towards McCarren Park. Here I passed the things I see every day that make this neighborhood unique. Each block seems to alternate between warehouses and new construction condos. Yes, many of these condos will cost you just shy of a million dollars, to live amongst these deserted garages. Gotta love it. Hidden in these blocks are also plenty of restaurants, cafes, art galleries, and boutiques. I could walk a block 5 times and see something new each time. This is partially because many of these places look like they are just warehouse space, and partially because new things are opening all the time.

I reach McCarren Park, which is one of the nicest parks in Brooklyn (so I'm told, I've never been to another, haha). I see people playing baseball, and lots of people with dogs (yay!). But mostly, I see Hipsters. Hipsters freakin' everywhere. As I ran by I could just see plaid shirts lining the grass and benches on both sides of me. They were talking, writing, drawing, taking pictures, drinking coffee. Enjoying the sun in their plaid shirts, hats, and skinny jeans (on the men). I did not fit in. And before I go on, let me just say that I am a pretty confident person. I don't normally think people are looking at me, and I'm not really self-conscious. But in this instance, it was clear that I did not fit in, as every Hipster stared at me as I ran by. I swear, it is true. Did they not approve of my cute pink and teal running outfit? Could they hear the Lady Gaga from my ipod?

Needless to say, I left the park. I ran south down Kent Avenue, along the waterfront. I could see the Empire State Building right across the river. I was thinking, "I belong on that side." After my trip through McCarren Park, I was missing my days of running the Central Park reservoir a lot! As I ran along the waterfront, I came upon some grassy areas- little parks set up on the water. How nice! I decided to enter the park and run up towards the water. Not so smart. The ground here was all cobblestone, and I almost fell five times. I was the only one running in this area, and now I know why! But now I know these little parks exist, complete with picnic tables and beautiful skyline views. Maybe I will return!

I continued south on Kent, and when I got to my street, I decided to keep running south. I don't go south very often, as I was under the impression it's a little shady over there. But I am quite tough (ha) and I figured this NYC gal could take care of herself. Well, I wouldn't say it was shady, but it was rather deserted. I could see some Hassidic Jews walking in the distance (south Williamsburg = land of the black hats). I also saw a photo shoot, and the model was posing spread eagle (in clothing, though) in front of some deserted warehouses. But besides that, I was alone. I passed the Domino Sugar Factory. I passed some other sort of plant that smelled AWFUL. And before I knew it, I was under the Williamsburg Bridge. Maybe next time I'll run over the bridge and right back into Manhattan ...

As I ran back home though the "south side" as they call it, I crossed to another street so that I was no longer on the waterfront block. Here I saw more restaurants, art galleries, and stores. I also noticed a lot more new construction condos. Maybe I was wrong about this part of town. I will have to explore here some more!

And this concludes my little running tour of Williamsburg. It is quite the interesting area! And while I would probably still prefer to be running along the reservoir, under the skylines of the Upper West and Upper East Sides, I am discovering new things here around every corner.



Thursday, March 11, 2010

Marital Musings

For the most part, things haven't changed around here since Hubby and I tied the knot. We lived together for 2 years before our wedding, and we've been together for five and half years now. But here are some of the things that take a little bit of getting used to ...

1. Saying "Husband" to others- I have called Hubby "Hubby" to his face for probably about two years now. It doesn't sound weird to me to call him Husband when he is around. But when I'm talking to someone ELSE and have to say "My Husband and I ..." or "My Husband says ..." it's really strange! I usually wonder if the other person thinks I'm old enough to have a husband, since I frequently get mistaken for a 17 year old.

2. Being a "Mrs"- That just sounds old. I'm Matron of Honor in my best friend's wedding, and that sounds even OLDER. I'm a Matron? Ew.

3. Signature- I loved my old signature. I'm not one to just scribble a line, and I had a really nice thing going on there with my old last name. I can't figure the new name out. The letters really just don't flow together well. It's quite sad.

4. Initials- I am used to saying my new last name now (well, sort of). But this past weekend someone asked me for my initials for the first time since I've been married. I caught myself giving my old last initial. Oops! I guess since this isn't something people ask for often I hadn't prepared myself properly to give the new answer. Now I'm further back in the alphabet. Grrrrr ...

Anyone else out there have a similar experience? What was the hardest thing for you to get used to after you got married?

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Small Town NYC

Earlier tonight I was walking on the Upper East Side. I only had to walk five blocks total- from my bus stop to my destination. In those five blocks I ran into two people I know. You'd think that in a city as big as New York this wouldn't happen. Maybe lots of NYC neighborhoods are really just small towns.

One place with a small town feel could definitely be my new neighborhood of Williamsburg. While I don't fit in (at ALL) with my neighbors, I do think I am beginning to appreciate certain aspects of the neighborhood. Besides from a Subway and Tasti-D, Williamsburg has no chain stores. And although it was before my time, I believe the opening of those chains (at least the Subway) was quite controversial. The restaurants in my neighborhood are absolutely fabulous. We've found better food here than the UES (although I do miss some favorites- omg, I want a Nicks Pizza). Any NYC foodie knows Williamsburg has an unbelievable reputation when it comes to restaurants. And I've found cute boutiques (surprisingly with some non-hipster clothing) along Bedford Ave. Everything here is "mom and pop", right here in the middle of NYC.

Hottest news in town is that Starbucks is opening right at the corner of N. 3rd and Bedford. Practically my corner. I will probably smell the coffee when I open my kitchen window. Also, a Duane Reade is going in across the street from there as well (there is a Duane Reade in the bottom of one of the new condos on the waterfront, but the walk there annoys me). I'm thrilled about the Duane Reade. I bet they'll carry Sprite and Swedish Fish (two things lacking in the hipster bodega's). And if you know me, you'd think I'd be BUGGING OUT about Starbucks coming. Even if you've read my other blog entries, you'll know I'm a Starbucks junkie. Well, it happens to be that this Starbucks will be replacing my favorite mom and pop place of all- The Bagel Store. The best bagels I've had in my life. Everyone flips out over these bagels. Was walking in Manhattan last week and actually heard two guys discussing how The Bagel Store makesthe best bagels in the city. I love it there, and judging by the line on the weekends, so does everyone else. So now my heart is torn. While the rest of the neighborhood is in an uproar about the big bad chain coffee shop coming to town, you'd think I'd be rejoicing. Leave hipsters- let me drink my $5 coffee in peace! But now I see where they are coming from. RIP The Bagel Store.

Apparently the whole "Starbucks is coming to town" rumor happens quite frequently here in Williamsburg. So I'm not taking this too seriously yet. But I'm just surprised with myself and my possible change of heart. Could I be starting to like Brooklyn?

Friday, March 5, 2010

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

Wow, I didn't blog for a week! Things have been busy around here, but I'm back now!

Last weekend I was in Philly with my friends for Girl's Weekend. This, everyone, is reason #528 why I am not ready to have kids. Put on music, give me a drink, and let me dance the night away. I remember when I was 22 or 23 my mom asked me when going to bars all the time was going to get old. When I had a serious boyfriend? No, he came along and helped me home. When I was engaged? No, that only gave me reason to go to Vegas and celebrate. When I got married? Obviously not! OK, so lets be honest- my "going out" nights are limited. Since we've lived in Brooklyn I've only had to take a cab home (meaning I was out too late to take the subway) twice. Lame! But, it has been a busy few months, and I also tend to hibernate in winter. Seriously, in college I used to go out in a tank top in 20 degree weather. How did I do that??? Anyway, I am not partying every weekend, or even close to every weekend. Ah, yes, there was a time when that was an every weekend occurrence. Hell, the year I turned 21 it was like a 4 day a week occurrence! Ah, PSU ...

So, what does Girls Weekend look like for 3 married ladies and 1 single (and fabulous) friend? It starts off very classy. Some wine over a delicious dinner at a nice restaurant. We discuss men, family, and work (that is code for "gossip about everyone else"). We progress to some vodka at the bar (single friend totally up for taking shots with me- love it). Next thing you know we have many new friends and feel as if we are the life of the party (probably not true, but in our altered minds ...). Later we're getting kicked out the door as they are shutting the place down. Why do bars in Philly close at 2? Luckily the late night dance club is right next door. We are on the dance floor in the middle of what can only be described as a "battle" right out of Jersey Shore. Stumbling home we can barely recall that nice dinner earlier in the night.

I am not ready to give this up!